Saturday 12 August 2017

Why you must always appreciate freedom

Thursday 10 August 2017

WHY I WILL FOREVER BE A FIGHTER



My father always tell me "never give up on your dreams"
Always reminding me about the future and what it holds for me if I am hard working and never giving up.
He has always believed in working diligently and never losing hope.
He's a firm believer that 'if you keep going no matter what, you shall get their'.

So one day I was at school and we were told to get ready for a field trip to a new construction site, to go see what a prefabricated column is and how it's being installed...
Everybody in class was super excited, except for those who's got plan for the football match during break time.

So I got to this site with all of my classmates and two teachers as our escorts. We were given crash helmet for safety, and instruction before we moved on site.
So I saw this man facing the other direction as we've just entered the site, he was trying to lift a bag of cement on his head, but it was all obvious he was tired and this woman all covered in cement dust so as the man quickly helped him get the bag of cement on his head. The woman muttered some few words I couldn't pick because of the distance and they both laughed.
He turned to go with the cement on his head and I was shocked to realise the man was my dad.
I was shocked and couldn't move a bit, my throat went dry immediately and my muscles tighten up. He looked at my direction but didn't recognize me cos of the helmet that was obviously oversized, that covered way too much of my face, almost reaching my eye lid.
The field trip was ruined for me and I couldn't concentrate all through, I kept watching him as he went back and forth to pick each load of cement on his head.
He later moved to another post and I couldn't see him until we left the site after an hour.
On the bus back home, I cried uncontrollably
That night I asked him how is work and he said "office was stressful today"
He never know I knew what he does to feed the family.
And on that day, I became a fighter

Though the checks came a lil late, though life was unbearable while growing up, though I couldn't afford my exams and was kicked out of senior college (secondary school), though I slept in class rooms for 10 semesters cos I couldn't afford a room,  though I went in search of better life and had to travelled hundreds of miles, all in a city I know nobody, I slept on cold floors for 213 days.
Yet I survived and am making something great out of my life.

What is your own THOUGH and how are you surviving?

© DelwinJames 

Your Time, your only leverage


Only spend time with those that truly care about you.
There are different levels of being responsible, and one part is caring for those that matters (friends, families, colleagues, partners, work mate etc)

Stop wasting your time, thought, credit, money, space, and convenience on those that are not trying to give it back.
They will only throw you on the dark path
BE WISE

© DelwinJames

Sunday 6 August 2017

Politics


I've been waiting for this kind of question my entire….errr… Well, for a while! This is my moment. This is it! I finally get to use Game Of Thrones to explain politics on Quora!
Let the Spider, Varys, do the talkin’
“In a room sit three great men, a king, a priest, and a rich man with his gold. Between them stands a sellsword, a little man of common birth and no great mind. Each of the great ones bids him slay the other two. ‘Do it,’ says the king, ‘for I am your lawful ruler.’ ‘Do it,’ says the priest, ‘for I command you in the names of the gods.’ ‘Do it,’ says the rich man, ‘and all this gold shall be yours.’ So tell me – who lives and who dies?”
I love this quote. It really makes one think about power and an individual’s relationship with power. When I first saw/heard this quote my mind instantly raced to the rich man and his gold. But that seems like more of a reflection of my own biases and my own time than anything else.
The way I see it, the answer is to Varys’ question is more subtle than predicting who lives and who dies. The way I see it, it's that man of common birth who holds all the power in that situation. If he does not listen to the priest, or the king or the banker, then no one will die. And if no one else listens to them either, what power do they really have?
People in power only enjoy it at our (the people's) pleasure. King Louis’ power did not save his neck during the French Revolution. The Pope doesn’t own large swaths of Italy anymore. Not everyone can be bought for indecent sums of cash.
The answer to your question is that We rule the world. And the sooner We the People figure that out, the better off everyone will be.
Power only resides where We think it resides.
 

MOVING ON

Your success will always set new standard for people in your circle.
You must know how to reinvent yourself for greater opportunity and dream.
The moment you think you're made is the moment you start losing your flavour
NEVER SETTLE OR DWELL ON PAST VICTORY

© DelwinJames

Friday 28 July 2017

Mentally Toughest Person on Earth

This is the mentally toughest person on earth: David Blaine.
A short excerpt of the death-defying feats he’s pulled off over the years:
  • Holding his breath for 17 minutes and 4 seconds.
  • Consuming nothing but water for 44 days.
  • Catching a .22 caliber bullet with a small metal cup in his mouth.
…and, my personal favorite, Blaine standing atop a 100-foot high column for 35 hours with no sleep.
 
On multiple occasions, David was closer to dying than surviving. His strength to endure these situations is unfathomable. More so, he has the courage to seek them out repeatedly, all because they fuel his ultimate goal: bring magic to the people.
Here’s what you and I can learn from him:
1. Be curious about enduring things.
When his mother fought cancer without complaint, David saw there’s more to hardship than suffering.
You can learn from it. But you have to wonder what’s on the other side to do that.
2. Hold on to creativity for dear life.
David went to Central Booking, the Manhattan municipal jail, for jumping a turnstile once. To avoid getting his ass kicked by the four buffest guys in the cell, he used the only thing he had left: his creativity. Eventually, he won the whole block over with his magic and got out.
Hold on to your creativity as if your life depended on it. Some day it might.
3. Have nothing to lose.
David’s mother died in his arms. It almost broke him, but it left him with nothing to lose and everything to gain. We all have things we’re afraid will be taken away some day.
The only way to not let that stop you is to let go before you lose them.
4. Fast.
One of David’s favorite books is Siddartha by Hermann Hesse. When Siddartha practices living in poverty, a merchant asks him what he can give if he has no possessions. To that, Siddartha says:
“I can think, I can wait, I can fast. If a man has nothing to eat, fasting is the most intelligent thing he can do.”
Hunger is the most elementary test of human existence. Take it.
5. Train remaining calm in extreme situations.
Navy SEALs are made comfortable with blacking out under water by having to walk across the bottom of a pool while strapped to 45 pound plates. David held his breath while hanging around sharks so he would know what it feels like to perform under stress.
Don’t just practice hard, practice under the hardest conditions.
6. Expose yourself to your worst fears.
Extreme doesn’t always mean dangerous. Blaine was afraid of cockroaches. Yes, bugs. One night, he slept in a little tent in Botswana, which was circled by one and a half ton hippos. Suddenly, the bugs became his friends.
When your brain gets close to the breaking point, it’ll throw your worst fears at you. You have to know they’re not real when the time comes.
7. Learn to override your brain.
Not succumbing to your brain’s irrational illusions is just one half of winning the battle. Once you do, you’ll still have to get it to follow you in the right direction.
David likes to trick his mind with numbers. On his 44-day fast, he created a superstition that once he’d get to 22 days, he’d be fine. After getting half, he focused on the next 11 days, and so on.
Pretend arbitrary milestones mean everything and maybe, one day, you’ll master your brain.
8. When you know you’re going to fail, go on.
At the halfway mark during his second world record breath holding attempt, David said he was “100% certain that I was not gonna be able to make this.”
But he figured since Oprah had dedicated an hour to the live TV special, he’d be better off fighting until he blacks out.
After 10 minutes, the blood started rushing away from his extremities to protect his vital organs.
At 12 minutes, his left arm went numb, and he started panicking about having a heart attack.
At 15 minutes, he went into heart ischemia, with his pulse jumping from 150 to 40 and back.
16 minutes in, David is just waiting to have a heart attack. He floats to the top of the bubble, waiting. Seconds float by, feeling like years.
When the doctors pull him out of the water at 17 minutes and 4 seconds, David Blaine has held his breath longer than any human in history.
All because when he had already failed, he kept going anyway.

Most of us don’t have to risk dying to push our mission forward. But it’s the kind of magic worth emulating.
Take these lessons. Carry them with you. Within yourself. Turn them into a system. Whatever it takes to close the gap between your present state and your true potential.
Hopefully, one day, you can live at the edge.
We are all capable of infinitely more than we believe. – David Blaine
 
Culled from Quora

 

Tuesday 18 July 2017

Unapologetical Life


Life will present to you so many things
You will be served with different dishes
If you do not taste the bad ones
You might never appreciate the good ones.
Life will stab you in the back
But that is just the way of life
Let the lessons make you stronger
Let every life's drama be your motivation.
Life taught me so many things
But life never said sorry
But I don't need that
Every pain life brought
I needed and they taught me different lessons

What's something everyone knows but no one wants to admit?

That people revolve their entire lives based off one thing….can you guess what it is?
Let me start from the end and work towards the beginning.
People regret a lot of their life because they made bad choices for too many years.
HMMM….
People regret last year entirely mainly because they didn't achieve what they set their hearts out to do.
 
He’s going somewhere with this. I just don't know where….
people don't put the amount of effort into their hearts for something, for months at a time because they feel like they haven't made any real progress.
 
Ok….I swear I know this. I know this. I know it, I know it, I know it, I know it! But what is it?
People can't make progress every week because they living their days wrong.
Huh? What?!
I'm confused
Ok let me explain.
Now that we had a little fun think about it. Do you think people are living their days wrong? And why would that make any sense? It's like more of a paradox than an answer.
People make decisions every day based off of one thing….the weekend.
I'm sure you’ve seen this cartoon
Or this
Love Garfield. How about these?
This is my personal favourite
 
Funny right? So how come we plan our entire lives from Friday to Sunday? How come the most spending, the most investing, the most time spent, and the most time wasted is spent only Friday though Sunday?
Do we plan to fail or has society failed to plan us a better way of doing things?
Everyone knows this, but I promise you very few are willing to admit it to themselves. Sure you say it to other people and they know what you mean.
 
BUT YOU DO FEEL COMFORTABLE KNOWING THAT AND DOING NOTHING TO CHANGES YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES?
hey today is Monday I mean you could start now, it's never to late. Or you could wait until Friday. I mean it is the weekend.

Tuesday 11 July 2017

What's it like having 100 million dollars in the bank?

Well…it’s like:
  • Being possible to generate from $3 million to $15 million per year just so - simply by investing on your own or by giving your money in the hands of a professional wealth management service (targeting a return from 3% to 15% per year).
  • It’s like spending $1000 per day and still having to live 273.8 years to spend it all.
  • It’s like never thinking about how much you should spend on your bills.
  • It’s like always shopping without even looking at the prices of the products you buy.
  • It’s like getting many friends…and maybe girlfriends - you know…those kinds of people who stick to your money like glue.
  • It’s like having the chance to make many dreams become true.
  • It’s like having the chance to make the dreams of your parents become true.
  • It’s like having the chance to make the dreams of many people around you become true.
  • It’s like being one out of 50,800 people worldwide having more than $100 million according to Credit Suisse http://publications.credit-suiss...
  • Based on the above data, it’s like being in the top 0.0007% of the richest people in the world.
  • It’s like being possible to buy a Ferrari…or even more
  • It’s like being possible to enjoy your time - spend it on whatever you want, because you don’t work day and night to survive and help your family. Maybe you like music and want to spend your time on learning piano
  • It’s like starting a business and hiring thousands of employees - giving them the chance to have a full time job.
  • It’s like organizing a contest with a $$$ award and enjoying the talent that gathers around it.
  • It’s like doing so many things that other people can’t even dream about..
I hope this helps!

SHOCKING BUT TRUE!



If you are over the age of 30, every single dog in the entire world that was alive when you were born died during your lifespan.


Cleopatra lived closer to space travel than the construction of the pyramids of Egypt.

Out of the 7 billion people alive, there will always be the kindest, the most evil, the most beautiful, the ugliest and the most extraordinary that you will never see.

I’ve never seen my cellphone in my dreams.

I’ve woken up thousands of times but I’m still nowhere near used to the suffering of sleeplessness.

My dog understands many of the words I say. I do not understand what any of his barks mean.

How the hell did your consciousness come to being? There were trillions of possibilities for you to never exist but here you are.

If any important historical figure before the 20th century had not existed, this would cause a chain reaction that would mean that all 7 billion people on Earth would now be different people.

Harry Potter was never an exceptional wizard. He just kept getting lucky back to back.

A person directly in front of you in a queue is also the person farthest behind you in the world.

There is a bag of acid in your stomach that could instantly kill you.

In an average hospital, you can find a person having the best day of their life, the worst day of their life, the first day of their life and the last day of their life.

The present moment of now will be an unchangeable past within moments. Yep, it already is. Again. Once again.

Every person eating the pizza will get a bite of the center.

Nobody can say “bless you” to the Pope when he sneezes, as he holds the highest rank in the church.

I’ve always lost my pens before finishing the ink, but I’ve always found pens which are out of ink, which either means I am a really mindless student or pens change hands quite a few times.

Damn, so many African children could drink this water that I’m wasting.

If my consciousness is in my brain, then the skeleton is not inside me, I am inside the skeleton.

The first person to ever milk a cow must have been an animal abuser.

If I sleep in, I am lazy, but if I go to bed early, no one bats an eye.

Monday 10 July 2017

WHAT IS NORMAL AND WHAT IS NOT?

Gayness was treated by psychiatrists in the 50s with shock therapy.
But it's now acceptable in so many countries of the world

Normal then is only a state of mind and what we feel inside
Do not listen to those that says "your ways ain't normal, they don't have your eyes or mind to see things the way you see them"

DelwinJames

 

Never give up



1) Any good thing doesn't want to be done easily, you force it. don't give up yet

2) If you've tried hard the first half of the year, try harder this second half. things can only get better

3) Always be optimistic about your life and imagine, desire only good things. Remember you
attracts what you think

4) Let your motivation come from within and not from someone else.


 

SOME OF THE MOST PARADOXICAL STUFFS IN THE WORLD



  • Overweight P.E. teachers

  • Sacrificing your health to make money, then spending money to recover your health


  • Doctors and nurses who smoke


  • Life Insurance - Living your life poor to die rich


  • Needing work experience to get a job but need a job to get work experience


  • Eating more when you get stressed and getting stressed because you ate more


  • Warned never to talk to strangers, criticized for being an introvert


  • Tired of the same boring life, afraid to quit and take risks


  • Wanting to have a strong immune system but take medicine for the smallest discomforts


  • Wanting our children to be logical thinkers but push them to a routine education life

  • Drinking caffeinated drinks to keep you up and take medical drugs to fall asleep